Having sex sometimes doesn't mean you have to love that person,
I mean if you're with someone that's great, but if you're single...
People's question about sex is feelings
Should we have feelings for the other person when your having sex?
The answer is no, do not have feelings for the other person, why?
Because you end up hurting yourself...
For example, you meet a guy, you talk and if the only thing that they want to talk about is you being sexy and wanting to have sex then that is all they going to get out of you, sex.
Now if that person, wants to have a monogamist relationship with you, then he's the one and yes sex will be awesome
Now, if they call you up to have sex, like a booty call, say no, because again whose hurting? You...
The only way for you not to catch feelings and not to get butt hurt and still want to have sex is by waiting until you're ready and then you call him up... and of course he's going to want to do it, because he's been waiting...
And that is how you do not get any feelings with anybody
Do sex as if it feels good for you and do not care about the other person...
And the other person is another story...
To be continue...

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